I work with someone who will come up to your desk pick something up and say can she have it? Today it was my breakfast. Yesterday it was a pen someone gave me...tomorrow who knows.
Someone always says?" I hope they know she is kidding."
I wish...I had the nerve to say "No honestly I don't know that. "
She might be kidding but she is also hoping you will give in and give it to her since others do.
I think next time I hear "I hope you know she is kidding."
I will say "Honestly, no I don't" and walk a way.